My soon to be fiance and I talk about what we'd like to do for our wedding a lot, but he seems to want to make a joke out of it.
I want a classy wedding, but fun. I don't want it to be about alcohol since there is alcoholism in my family. I don't want to worry about a guest getting too drunk and ruining my big day.
He wants to wear a t-shirt and swim trunks and party like we are back in high school.
I have a feeling once he proposes and we get serious about the planning that he wont joke too much, but seriously?
I'm a fairy tale kind of girl, and I've been planning for this my whole life. We've talked about a destination wedding or a small wedding. Then having a bigger reception once we get back from Honeymoon. Which I would like a lot better. I'm willing to compromise on something, but not everything.
So..what do i do? Or should I just wait and see once he pops the question?