My maid of honor got out of a long term relationship last October. She has not seriously dated anyone else since then. Recently, she has been inquiring about her plus one at our wedding. I don't know what to tell her! I have know her for 10+ years, and she is very familiar with my family, as well as the bridal party/other guests (we have know a few others for 10+ years who will be in attendance). What I've read/been told is that someone is not warranted a plus one unless they have been dating that person for at least a year or lives with them. I was raised pretty old school and am having a traditional church wedding. The other day she proposed her two ideas on the subject if we allowed her a plus one. The first was a 'man friend' if she met someone by the wedding (which is in less then 5 months) or to bring her roommate whom I have met a handful of times (she is from a newer friend group of the MoH). I don't want to drive a wedge between us, we are also in the process of planning my bachelorette party, but I don't find it acceptable for her to bring a guest. She will not be the only single attendant either; we're having 10 people standing up and 2 others are single; 2 others may come alone due to scheduling conflicts. Are we being inconsiderate??