My wedding is a small intimate event for close family members only (mothers, grandmothers, sisters, brothers, nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles, 1st cousins). To clarify, there are no grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins on my side. So it is truly smaller than it sounds. The reception will follow that evening, and it looks to include 200-250 more distant relatives, co-workers, and friends (of course). The reception is at the Country Club, but will be a barbecue buffet, with a band (so hopefully with dancing!). Question 1: Do I send save the dates for Reception only? (I think yes...maybe?) Question 2: How do I illustrate this is a semi-informal event (i.e. I'm serving barbecue and playing disco music but don't wear jeans and sundresses.) when the event venue is a country club? I'm having a tough time. Please help! Thanks!