H and I received two gifts the day of the wedding as we were walking out the door. I think I sent the thank you cards before we left for the honeymoon and H was "helping" clean up the kitchen and chucked my wedding gift thank you card list. I've been so busy I really can't remember if I wrote them, I know I intended to, but don't know if I actually did. Is it better to possibly send a repeat thank you card than to not send one at all? I'm thinking yes. If so, should I put a little, "I can't remember If I already sent you a thank you card because I'm an asshat" blurb??? Once again, my other half cleaning bites me in the ass. Thanks ladies

June 1, 2013 - finally making it official!