Hello, I'm new to the boards. So I have this bridesmaid name Carey and she is a fair weather vegetarian and/ or vegan. I've been dealing with her behavior for years, so excited she would've matured to special events that weren't revolving around her. I don't know which she is because she switches back out eats meat. Anyway, I had a family bridal shower, my male bridesmaid is name Jim and his cousin is catering the wedding. So at my first bridal shower all my bridesmaids were also attending. Carey started to make comments such as "I sure hope your food will be vegetarian and/ or vegan friendly." I use that term because she switches then back and forth as if they mean the same thing. She keeps making the same comments over and over again. She already knows that the caterer has a great menu, we are serving a chicken , seafood, beef dish, and for her a vegetarian option. Since I've know Carey she had been very self absorbed, conceited, and obnoxious especially to people who do do eat meat. My second bridal shower is in a few weeks, she volunteered to host it with Jim. Jim calls me up today telling me that she wasn't going to serve any meat at my bridal shower since "she" was paying. Jim and her both are paying and he confessed that Carey had been giving the other bridesmaids a lot of problems. So I met her today at the bakery for my cake tasting and to bring home samples for my fiance. We already picked out a type of cake flavorings and of course she goes over and says her line regarding my cake. She did it my engagement party. Ever since I got engaged she had been so adamant on her personal preferences being in my wedding. People are right, true colors come out when people are getting married. I don't how to deal with her; always making a fuss over things that have nothing to do with her. My fiance suggested that I should make her a guest instead of bridesmaid.
I apologize if this is confusing, I had surgery a few days ago so I will add in more details.
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