My fiance has two younger step-siblings that we do not talk to or see often. We decided that we would not have them in our wedding party as there was other people that we wanted to ask. I think this really hurt my fiances step mom as she was expecting them to have a role in our wedding. A few months ago she had as me if we at least had flowers ordered for them as they are his step siblings. I said no, we only had them ordered for the wedding party, parents and grandparents. We're having a hard time with this because we feel that the flowers signify being in the wedding party. Does anyone have any suggestions on something we can do or give to my fiance's step-siblings to make them feel special or is my fiance's step-mom out of line by asking/expecting us to do these things? If all else fails, we will probably just end up getting them flowers to make his step-mom happy, but I want to see if anyone else has any suggestions. Thank you!!