So advice is needed in handling a sticky situation with my FMIL. we have had our honeymoon booked for months. A wonderful week in London followed by a wonderful week in Paris!
Over the weekend my FMIL tells me her and her boyfriend booked a trip to Paris and London for August. And I had to ask her several times when she was going before she gave me a straight answer. She kept just saying oh the middle of the month or you will be back way before us. And finally I point blank said are you going to be there at the same time what day do you leave for Paris. And behold we are overlapping the week in Paris.
We have had so many problems with her durring the wedding like getting the same color dress as my mother after she was asked to get a different color and shown a swatch. Or lying to guests about who is paying or trying to change items on an already chosen menu because she didn't like what we had already chosen.
So needless to say when I heard she was vacationing there during our honeymoon I felt nauseas. She is very pushy and feelings ate easily hurt.
Should we nicely tell her now that although we will be in the same place at the same time we really want our privacy? I don't want to be mean. But everyone I've told thinks its crazy she didn't double check dates with us and thinks its crazy she is going to the same place during our honeymoon. A trip I was dreaming of is now causing me mega anxiety and I'm not sure if I should lay down boundaries now or hope for the best.
Any thoughts?