So before we got engaged, my Fiance and I made it known one night to his family that we were planning on getting engaged.The same night his brother and his girlfriend informed the family that night they also planned to get engaged. Fast forward two months- we get engaged and before setting our date we discussed the date we wanted with his brother and his girlfriend to make sure they didn't have any immediate plans and got their blessing. (Even though they were not engaged, because I was trying to be considerate). A month later they break up, right after they announced their engagement. (She pushed him so much he ended up buying her a CZ ring off of Amazon). Brother moves out and moves back in with his parents, which is where my Fiance is currently staying until September, until we move into our own place. Currently, I spend the night there between 2 and 3 nights a week and get along wonderfully with his family. 2 weeks ago his brother and girlfriend get back together and even though she has her own place, she has been staying at the house which has been really uncomfortable for us- she was really nasty after the break up and I have distanced myself from her. This week on July 4th (which marks one year to our wedding date) they announced that they are engaged and want to get married next summer! Originally, they asked to have their wedding a
week before ours, and my Fiance's parents told them no- so now they want to have it memorial day weekend- that's 6 weeks a part! Normally, I wouldn't care but we have a lot of family on the groom's side who are coming in from out of town (including
siblings) who will not be able to make it to both weddings and will have
to choose.If they could separate their wedding 6 months from ours, it wouldn't be so bad. But obvious they do not have the class and consideration that we do. Our wedding date is already set, with the reception hall and
church already booked. Am I over reacting? I am hurt, and upset and really need some advice. Thank you!