One of my best and longest friends has just begun alcohol recovery (she is about 6 months sober). I would absolutely love if she would be one of my maids if she stays clean. There is a little less than a year until my wedding. Is it disrespectful to ask her to be part on that one condition, or is that a slap in the face? If I should mention it to her, what is the best way of going about it? If I shouldn't, what is your opinion on the situation?
I'll take all of the advice I can get!! Thank you