I don't know what to do!
Every time I start to make plans and tell some people about the date, a week or two later he freaks out and decides that we can't do it. (Always with the excuse that it's too much money, but we haven't actually PAID for ANYTHING yet- with the exception of my dress, which I paid for myself and it wasn't an expensive one.) I'm trying to find the least expensive options possible while keeping it classy and giving ourselves plenty of time to pay for things, but just the idea of making any kind of concrete plan freaks him out and then he decides it's not happening. I've put a lot of time and effort into coming up with ideas that he'll be happy with, and have planned three or four different weddings, all of which he's cancelled before we've ever paid a deposit or put a plan into action. Not to mention, all this time, his parents are pushing and pushing about how we should get married ASAP and I end up looking like an idiot because I tell the parents/ close relatives about the new date/plans, etc and then I have to tell them it's cancelled.
I apologize if I seem like I'm ranting, but I really don't know what I can do to fix the situation and I could use some advice. :-/