Okay, so my wedding is May 31, 2014. My bridesmaids are scattered everywhere 3 live in Alabama, 1 in Georgia, and 1 in Ohio. I also live in Alabama. I started the search early on for the perfect bridesmaid dress so I could give my girls enough notice to plan and save. I spent about a month researching the price ranges and what I wanted. When I narrowed down the designers I liked, I talked to my girls privately about their budgets and the budget was to keep it under $200. The day I bought my wedding dress, the store carried one of the dresses I liked and I knew it was the one. My bridesmaids also got a 20% discount on the dress because I had 3 or more bringing the dress to a total of $154...I was thrilled. However, before I set up the bridesmaid account I called my girls and made sure that was okay because with the discount package you have to get your measurements on your own and use the size chart as a guide. Everyone agreed that was the perfect option since everyone is so scattered, not to mention busy with their own families/work, so they could just get their measurements and call and place the order to the store over the phone. Well I think everything is fine and dandy, until one of my bridesmaids calls me this morning saying she searched eight websites where you get the dress plus free shoes for the exact same price, so in reality I did not get a discount and the store duped me. I tried to not to take it personal and just took as her trying to help, so I steered the conversation in another direction but she kept on and on about how I did not get a discount and really was just talking down to me. Needless to say, the conversation was not productive. It ended with me standing my ground saying I was pleased with the decision and thought I made a good selection. She got mad and just said nvm I will talk to you later and it was over. I really do not want to lose a friend over something silly, but needless to say it really got off with me how she purposefully researched to see if I really got a discount and then called me up to tell me such and talk to me like I was an idiot. None of my other bridesmaids are going and double checking prices. The point is I thought everything was good and everyone was happy. I need some advice on how to handle this because I do not feel bad for standing up for myself, but I do not want the wedding fun to be ruined over an argument that never should of took place.