So my "best friend" is no longer my best friend, we haven't had a conversation in a month because for the umptenth time she has belittled me and in the worst way. Our friendship has been going downhill since I got pregnant late last year and she started trying to break me and my now fiance' up. I'm just at witts end and don't know what to do. She's lied to my own family about me, she's practically called me a wh*** for having a child out of wedlock, she even told me when I got pregnant that "it was probably an ectopic pregnancy and I shouldn't buy anything" Who does that? Despite all of that drama I was there for her when she found out she was pregnant and was happy for her, I was there for her when she miscarried and never said a cross word to her. Then when speaking of her wedding last month we were discussing her bridesmaids dresses, which I couldn't fit mine bc I bought it six months before the wedding and ended up four months preggers at the wedding, she then told me if I hadn't made the MISTAKE of getting pregnant that I could have fit my dress and wouldn't have had to buy another one. Number one I don't regret getting pregnant or having my baby girl. I love her more than my own life and would never call her or want her referred to as a mistake!! Number two she still refers to me as her "best friend" even after saying these things to me and she wasn't there for me during my pregnancy and has yet to even see my child since she was born and my baby is four months old.
The problem I now have is this, though we havent spoken in a month and I don't intend to tell her about the wedding, theres facebook and I do live in a very small town so she's going to find out. She's going to expect to be invited and be "matren of honor" Problem is I don't want her there and I sure don't want her to be the Matren of Honor. That title is reserved for someone that actually treats me like a friend instead of a stepping stone and that can be there for me without showing out like she does. She's a bit of a drama queen. So what am I to do to avoid drama and avoid any conflict? Approach her or what?