I am not yet engaged but have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years (since high school) and am pretty sure that I will be pretty soon. I am so excited about that, but I am also afraid even thinking about a wedding because of family issues, specifically with my father. My parents are recently divorced, and my father has never been a good parent to me. He is extremely narcissistic, self-centered, and emotionally abusive. I do not feel comfortable with the idea of him walking me down the aisle, but I think that he will be expecting to and that his side of the family (who is pretty conservative) will also have this expectation. I've even been told by a close family friend that when I get married it would be disrespectful if I did not allow him to walk me down the aisle. I would want him to be present at my wedding but fear what will happen if I do not allow him to do what I'm sure he considers his "right" as my biological father. If anyone else has been in a similar situation and can offer any guidance to ease my fears, that would be amazing. I feel silly because I am not yet engaged, but I know this is going to be an issue I need to be prepared for very soon.