So I planned a pretty decent Bachelorette Party with the other BM's. We planned on having dinner at a nice, but not too expansive, restaurant that has a really good happy hour. Then afterwards going to my house to drink, play games and watch movies. All these things fit with the Bride and is something we usually do during our girls nights. The bride told her sister 2 weeks ago that she wants to go to the hotel where her and her fiancé had their first date, where he also proposed and where she'll spend her wedding night. All she wants to do is have drinks there. Normally I wouldn't mind adding this into the plan, but about half of the girls invited are under age and would be bored just sitting there watching us sip our drinks. I also just think its a little weird that she wants to go there for her BP. I was going to just ignore the comment and pretend I knew nothing about it. However, the bride and I had lunch today and she mentioned going to that hotel bar was her one request for her BP. So should I just be like whatever and add it to our plans or stick with what I have planned?