im so confused on what to do! my FI and i have talked about wanting to get married at his grandparents lake house (2 hrs from where most our family lives). EVERYONE keeps telling us its our wedding, our special day and should have it where ever we want but every time where we want to have it gets brought up both families give us a list of reasons why we shouldnt and how much easier it would be. how it would be cheaper for everyone, more convenient for everyone pretty much just about what everyone else would prefer. YES it would be more convenient if we did it close to "home" but its what we have talked about. the stress of this has seriously taken all joy and happiness out of this experience, ive come to the point where i just dont care anymore. were suppose to get married this Oct. 12. and i still have yet to get invitations or anything, (have no motivation) my FI is pretty supportive and just wants me to be happy
i keep thinkin to just put it off, like that would solve the problems, but we are so close im not sure if we could pull it off anywhere. im so lost. i probably sound like a bridezilla brat haha but i just always imagined it to be a time to celebrate....