Ok.... I hope to hear from you all!
Tell me how you are narrowing down your guest list?? (Or if you're married, how did you pare down the guest list?)
We'd like to have a smallish wedding but the guest list just keeps growing and growing!!!
It seems like everyone is adding to the list. Fiance and I are considering taking an arbitrary number and giving 1/3 of guest list to my parents, 1/3 to his parents, and saving 1/3 of the invites for our friends.
If it helps to know, Fiance and I are splitting wedding costs with his parents. My parents are not contributing.
The other problem: How many "no"s do you plan for? 10-15%? I know it's tacky but do you think we should consider doing a B list (sending out more invitations to people after a few "No"s have come back)?
Here are two short articles about the B List:
http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-planning/destination-weddings/qa/inviting-b-list-guests-to-adestination-weddingqa.aspxhttp://www.weddingbee.com/2010/09/03/wedding-b-list/#axzz2ZsI0gm17It seems very tricky to me!!!
And please, keep it civil! Just looking for some friendly advice!
Thanks so much!!!!