My Dad is dying and is wont make it to my wedding day in three years, Im very close with my dad and he means the world to me. Today my Mom asked me if we can move up the wedding so my dad can be there. I talked to my FI and he has refused to move the date and said that it would be irresponsible to get married sooner. When I asked what was the difference between sooner (spring 2014) than in three years his response was simply that he didn't want to. I don't know what to do or think right now