I recently had a falling out with my MOH over me and my fiances wedding. First, here's some back story. Me and my fiance broke up for about a month because we were fighting a lot - he was working 80 hours a week and I was working and going to school full time. The stress about money and general stress from our busy lives wore us down until we both pretty much gave up. After about a month though we realized we weren't ready to give up completely and worked things out and have since gotten back together...so far things have been really good (he got a better job only working 40 hours a week which has helped tremendously). I announced that the wedding would be back on (even though its not scheduled for another year) and that we would be making a deposit on a venue in the coming month since it will be a year out. My bff and MOH was not pleased and told me I was rushing things and that she didnt think I was making a good choice. This really upset me - mostly because when I think about talking about planning my wedding with my best friend I want it to be exciting but instead it felt clouded in negativity. I politely told her that we both made mistakes in the past but were ready to move forward and she said "The past is the best indication of the future". I got even more upset and pretty much told her I didn't ask for her opinion and that a little support would be nice. Then she flew off the handle and said I was being rude to someone who only cares and that I go and have fun in my relationship that's "progressing into a failed marriage that u can't afford to get out of" as she put it. I am such a forgiving person, that I would probably reconcile with her if she approached me. But how can I still be her friend when she doesn't believe in my future marriage? Has anyone else been in a situation like this - where someone has voiced their opinion about your marriage or told you you were making a mistake?