So our venue gave us $1,000 off to get married on a Friday. So for us, big bonus. Wedding on Friday. Some of FI's family members are coming from OOT. About a 3hr drive. We already got the confirmation from some that they would definitely come, and some said they can't. Okayy cool. I understand the whole getting off of work and having to drive to make it there by 6:30. I get that. But when its people that live here in this vicintity that call us or msg us and ask why are we having our wedding on a Friday and are being rude about it, thats when I get mad. Like I literally had this convo:
-Why yall getting married on a Friday?
-Discount.
-Yall already spending all this money, yall couldnt pay extra to get married on a Saturday??
-No, we couldn't are you gonna give us the extra 1k, cuz if you are then we'll get married on Saturday.
-I just think you're inconviencing your guests by making them take off of work.
-Look, if you don't want to come you don't have to. The people that really wanna be there will be there. Guests will know the date 6months in advance so they can plan accordingly. Sounds like to me you're just making excuses, so I can just cross you off the list right now.
-I was just saying.
-Well so am I.
Really.?? FI and I aren't asking anybody to take off. Our wedding isn't until 6:30 and we're totally prepared to start at 7 if we have to. I'm sure if you really wanna be there you will make it. I don't have time to stress over this cause forreal the only people that realy need to be there are me, FI, and Pastor. Everybody else can stay the hell home. It's just irritating to hear it back to back. Like I just wanna put on the Save The Dates in bold FRIDAY if you don't like it don't come. I don't know about them, but I know alot of people that look for reasons to get off of work. I'm helping you out.
May 2013 January Siggy: Cake.!
