My wedding is under 3 months away. About three months ago, we decided on bridesmaid dresses at Davids Bridal. My MOH purchased hers right away and already has hers. My Bridesmaid (how is also a family member) did not get her dress at the time. She simply tried it to determine her size. She then said she was going to search the internet to try and find the original manufacturer of the dress (who sells it to Davids Bridal) and purchase it through them to try and save a few bucks. I've searched the internet myself and have not been able to fine out how she is going to do this but whatever. I went the Davids Bridal route in the first place so that the dresses would be cheap to begin with. Plus, as a family member I know her financial situation is not that desperate at all. Anyways, the wedding date is now less than three months away and she has not gotten the dress yet. Davids Bridal just called me to remind me of this and let me know that the dress is now on backorder. If she ordered it right now, it would just barely come in on time. How do I nicely ask her/remind her about needing to get the dress without sound like a controlling bridezilla. She is an adult, so I figured she would be able to take care of getting the dress without a nudge, but that doesn't seem to be happening. Thanks.