Hey girls I have a WWYD question that is wedding related.
Right before we moved out of state at Christmas I asked my FI's sister and neice to be in the wedding and both excitedly accepted. I told all of my girls to just pick a short, blush tone dress in their style and budget. All of them have a dress ready to go including the neice except for his sister. I've tried to not ask her about a dress much since I figuered she had 7 months. Last month she asked me when she had to tell me by if she couldnt find a dress and she was having trouble. I said ideally as soon as possible but really she had up until I have to give numbers to the florist and all that. She told me this weekend she still hadn't found anything but had purchased an outfit just in case she couldn't find a dress. That sort of leads me to believe that she's planning to not stand up. This is fine with me either way, I'm not upset, mad, etc.
She asked if she could still spend the night with us girls on Friday before the wedding even if she isn't "IN" the wedding and I of course said absolutely because she's going to be family and I do love her as a friend. So here's my question, finally. I ended up ordering her BM's gifts JIC and I am paying for mani/pedi for all the girls. I'm planning to give out my gifts with everyone together. If she drops out last minute do I still offer to pay for all that stuff and give her the gifts or should I just hold the gifts until Bday/Christmas and give then? The gifts are personal and have nothing to do with the wedding.
TL;DR
FI's sister is supposed to be a BM and can't/didn't find a dress as of yet. She might drop out. I bought BM's gifts already and I'm paying for a service the day before for my girls. If she drops do I still give the gifts or do I hold them for another occassion (bday coming up and Christmas). Gifts are personalized and are not wedding related or used for the wedding.