So my mother has had 2 big weddings in the past and has had very bad etiquette. No thank you notes. No Oot guest bags. No bridal party gifts or parent gifts. No seating charts. Who know what else she didnt do. Anyways since our family have been to her weddings, I'm nervous they will not show up to my wedding because of her not being a good host. What do you think? Am I being too neurotic?