Just popped over from the nest to ask about inlaws after all the fuss of the wedding is done... I guess im just feeling a little like wallpaper and wanting to see if anyone has any suggestions. Up until wedding I kept FILs up to date on all planning stuff, also sent friendly emails here and there and cards for bdays (I promise it wasn't overwhelming, just every few weeks). Since wedding I haven't heard from them, my friendly emails to sibling in laws are ignored, my bday came and went without even a text from anyone on his side. I know that I sound very selfish - I'm really not asking for much - but I just don't understand why I'm getting the cold shoulder now that wedding is over. I like them, and I know it's important to my spouse that i try, so I'm trying, but is this really all the relationship they want? What about when we have kids, surely they will want to be more involved then? Is it me?
I guess I'm not sure if I should bring this up to the spouse (golden rule is don't complaint to spouse about their family right?), let it go, or give up?