my MOH is my sister. When I first showed her my wedding colour her exclamation was "You don't exactly expect me to wear green do you". So instead of being selfish and forcing her to wear my favourite colour I offered her a few other second choice colours which to be honest I was still a little upset that I was trying to accommodate her instead of her accommodate me since it is my wedding. I prefered that she wear a long elegant gown but she wants to wear something short which again not my first choice but is tolerable for me. But now she wants to wear royal blue which is her favourite colour, I really like this colour too but not for my wedding colours as I find it too overpowering and would prefer a lighter blue shade.
Too be honest my MOH is being really diffcult with her dress and colour, in fact she is acting as if this is her wedding. I have offered to change my own wedding colours for her but I cannot change them to a colour if I do not think they are appropriate for my wedding.
At this point I am considering on buying a dress we both saw and liked (except she wont agree to wear the colour I prefer) and asking her to wear it for the ceremony and wedding photos and then she can be free to change into whatever she wants to wear for the party afterwards. Can you please tell me what you think?
Maybe 30 years down the line we will both laugh at the photos and say "what was I thinking!!" but for now shouldn't she just grin and bear it? I only plan to hopefully get married once and I am sorry if I sound selfish, but this is my wedding not hers.