So a little background... my mom passed away almost 3 years ago. I've been trying to rack my brain on a way to remember her during my wedding and/or reception, but I am not a sappy, tear jerker kind of person and I certainly don't want anything of that sort at my wedding, supposedly one of the happiest days of my life (I say supposedly, bc nothing will top the births of my sons, lol). My mom would never have wanted that either. I came up with a kind of cool idea but my DJ said he can't make it work bc we're too close to the wedding (time issue). No big deal.
So here's the thing... I am feeling pressure from some people that I have to do something like this, but I just don't want to. My garter is made of pieces of her wedding dress, so her memory will be close to me that day. I think that's enough. Are people going to side-eye if I don't do a public remembrance thing? Or am I OK and the people pressuring me in the wrong? Thanks for your thoughts.