So, FI and I are want to skip the garter toss and the bouquet toss. FI and I don't have many single friends and I remember going to a wedding where I was all but dragged onto the dance flour with literally 2 other single women for a bouquet toss and I felt like it was Parade of the Spinsters. Last October FI and I went to a wedding where both of these were skipped and no one even noticed, however I am still waiting for that thank you card so I'm not exactly using this wedding as my beacon of etiquette. Anyway my questions is this; are these two.... activities (??) traditions that shouldn't be shirked or can I do away with this silliness?