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Dreamergirl8812 · August 2013

How long have you been married and how often do you have sex with your SO? Who usually initiates it and in what context?

hlvonb · August 2013

I am not married yet but I would say it is about 4- 5 times a week. Its 50/50 as to who initiates it though.

hordol · August 2013

We have been married for about 6 weeks. Leading up to the wedding and for the few weeks following, we were having sex 4 or so times a week.

I'm off the pill momentarily (prescription ran out and dr wouldn't renew it unless I went in for a check up...appointment is tomorrow) and going off that has messed with my hormones SO MUCH. I thought going ON the pill lessens your sex drive, but going off of it has been worse. So the past 2-3 weeks have been less than stellar.

ETA: I am also the initiator most of the time. DH initiated last night though, probably because he finally had to because of my stupid hormones being out of whack. I usually initiate before he gets the chance.

smalfrie19 · August 2013

Not married yet (living together a year and a half) but would say probably between 5 and 8 times a week.. I know thats quite a range but during the work week it's about 3 times and during the weekend its about 2-3 times a day.

applejambutter · August 2013

I am the initiator. almost always.
but we have been married a little over a month and I would say around 4 times a week? before it was about the same.

GypsyWife_ · August 2013

Dreamergirl8812 said:
How long have you been married and how often do you have sex with your SO? Who usually initiates it and in what context?

I've been married for 8 years. We have sex only 1-3 times a week now. He usually starts it. I initiate when I drink wine and am not tired but that is rare.

ksblumb · August 2013

We have been married for 6 months but have been together for almost 10 years. Most times it is about 3-4 times a week. There are phases where it's less and phases where it's more.

KatWAG · August 2013

smalfrie19 said:

Not married yet (living together a year and a half) but would say probably between 5 and 8 times a week.. I know thats quite a range but during the work week it's about 3 times and during the weekend its about 2-3 times a day.

My H would happily dump me for you.

smalfrie19 · August 2013

KatWAG said:

smalfrie19 said:

Not married yet (living together a year and a half) but would say probably between 5 and 8 times a week.. I know thats quite a range but during the work week it's about 3 times and during the weekend its about 2-3 times a day.
My H would happily dump me for you.

I don't believe that. He married you, he loves you.

simplykayla · August 2013

I'm not even married yet and it's down to once every 1-2 weeks. I feel pretty sad about this now lol. But we do have two kids under the age of 3, so that does make it harder to get any time in.

rajahmd · August 2013

shaylagirl · August 2013

In our house, I'm Grabby McGrabberson, and -always- trying to initiate.

There's a 10 year age difference, and he's started a job that's incredibly stressful on him (CPS), so, we're down to about once or twice a month. Maybe. Sometimes. Sometimes it's just once a month.

But, I keep trying anyways.

I always joke I'm the man in our relationship, and he's the woman, because, I swear, he has said "Not tonight dear, I have a headache." and he wasn't joking or being funny. I almost fell off the bed laughing when he said that.

He, of course, got all butthurt when I pointed out the irony.

Typical woman. *laugh*

Dreamergirl8812 · August 2013

Anyone else in the 1 - 2 times a month club?

Comipa · August 2013

We live with his dad to save money since the job market isn't so nice. We have sex on average 2-ish times a week. Sometimes more, sometimes less. We aren't married yet but I don't see things changing. I get super paranoid that his dad will hear something so I always say no whenever his dad's in the house.

Psychoangel2u · August 2013

There for awhile it was one (ish) times per month due to stress (grad school, work, wedding planning, etc.). Now we're getting back to our normal 2-4 times per week.

dbanana · August 2013

FI and I get it on maybe once a month? We are actually seeing a counselor now (no shame in my game) because we both want to have sex more, but it just isn't happening that way. I have a feeling it's due to my 8am-9pm schedule, and FI not being a born initiator.

WonderRed · August 2013

We've known each other a total of 16 years, have been back together for just under a year and a half, and have been living together for 10 months. We probably average 3-4 times a weeks. The night DS goes to his dad it's pretty much a preplanned, standing event, but the others times it balances out to being equal initiation.

88beautymarked · September 2013

Comipa said:

We live with his dad to save money since the job market isn't so nice. We have sex on average 2-ish times a week. Sometimes more, sometimes less. We aren't married yet but I don't see things changing. I get super paranoid that his dad will hear something so I always say no whenever his dad's in the house.

Us too. Can't wait til after the wedding when we move out and I can be as loud as I want.

Been together over 5 years at this point and we're at 3-4 times per month. I would call this past the "honeymoon" stage of our relationship in that we aren't going at it like rabbits anymore.

KytchynWitche · September 2013

Not married yet, but we're not doing much at the moment - we're living with his parents until a suitable rental comes up for us. We're pretty erratic though. Before we moved in with his parents it would be anything from twice a day to once in two months... I'd say average is probably 1-2 a week.

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