When are you having your shower? Unfortunately, my sister is very pregnant and her due date is Aug 22nd but we think he will come early so her mind hasn't really been on planning a shower for me. Furthermore, I'm not 100% sure that I want to have one/it's necessary for me. Also, my son's bday is the 2nd week of Sept. so.....I don't have a lot of dates available to have it. Is anyone having it really close to their date? Is anyone not having one at all? If not, why aren't you?