I am a female best man. I am extremely frustrated. I have been planning the whole Bach. party with almost no help. My fiancé is doing most of the helping. I originally asked for the groomsman to help pay for the paintball and maybe a little extra. I find out that he cannot do so yesterday because he chose the wrong roommate and is now having to pay for all of the rent. It has also been brought to my attention that the Maid of Honor and brides maid are not communicating with the Bride. She now wants to tag along on our stuff. I cannot afford to do everything for their entire wedding. I do not know what to do. I do not want to tell her no because I think that she should have her moment too, but this is his day. His Bach. party. I am feeling like I am the only responsible party in this party. What should I do?<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" />