Our invites went out yesterday, so most people got them today. We got our first (verbal) RSVP, from a friend who:
- has known about the wedding since the STDates were sent
- still decided to go to a sports clinic that weekend, that ends at 3.30 p.m. on Sunday (our wedding starts at 3 p.m.)
- the clinic is 3.5 hours away, minimum, from the wedding location
- he gave me the RSVP and said, "I'm going to try to make, but I'm not sure I can, but keep a plate warm for me. Oh, and the Friday night before, I have a date, so if it goes well, can I bring her as my date?" (Note; No plus one on his invite).
So he wants to show up 3+ hours AFTER the reception has started, after the dinner is over, have us hold a plate for him, and have me possibly accommodate a date.
I don't even...
(Mind you, I don't mind if he picks the sports clinic over the wedding, but please don't act surprised that my wedding is still on the same date at the same time it was on our STDate card)
I'm gonna go with 'not my circus, not my monkeys.'