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NWRL Good or Bad

clg1213clg1213 member
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So, would it be good etiquette or bad etiquette if I just tossed the STDs, unaddressed but with a list, through a post office door when the winds kick up right?

How about ripping them all to shreds if FI ignores me one more time when I ask how to spell a name.  And then he suggests that it I want to be in closer proximity I should come into the same room where I had been doing the STDs...which is also his x-box room.

 

Truth -- Grumpy.  About that stuff and general xbox behavior (yea, we've tlked about it...countless times).  About the chronic severe pain and seeing my dress and seeing someone else looking back (just LOOK plain ill no muscle tone (which I HAD before), rashes that scare folks)

 

Just needed to grumbles out.  suggestions other than wait out the storm?

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Re: NWRL Good or Bad

  • GypsyWife_GypsyWife_ member
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    Keep calm and drink vodka... no but really you have it lucky. Im waiting for my husband to come home. Its been everynight at 11:30.
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  • MuppetOverlordMuppetOverlord member
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    Your post is somewhat incoherent. The gist I get is that your FI doesn't care about the STDs and you are frustrated.

    The time before your wedding shouldn't be a storm that needs waiting out. This is the trial period before your marriage.  STDs shouldn't be so frustrating and it could be a red flag for you. You don't wait it out, you take advantage of this time and work these things out so that you're both happy before you get married. If that doesn't happen, you might want to consider postponing.


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  • clg1213clg1213 member
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     Incoherence is medical....Severe pain on a daily bass  And the meds do it too.

    Game playing is a long-term issue, as s me feeling lonely.  So I figured I'd address STDs in these areas for compay, had to ask Qs three time or an answer which just pissed me off.  I need an occasional TY

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  • TiaTeaTiaTea member
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    @clg1213 "...if FI ignores me one more time when I ask how to spell a name..."
    If you don't know the name , the person doesn't get invited. Simple as that!
    Imagine the fun having a wedding with people whom you actually know.
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  • OliveOilsMomOliveOilsMom member
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    clg1213 said:

     Incoherence is medical....Severe pain on a daily bass  And the meds do it too.

    Game playing is a long-term issue, as s me feeling lonely.  So I figured I'd address STDs in these areas for compay, had to ask Qs three time or an answer which just pissed me off.  I need an occasional TY

    The bolded is a serious issue.  You do realize this is not something that will magically change after saying "I Do."  You should address this issue with your FI now.  Perhaps some pre-marital counseling would be a good idea.  And your FI should be helping you plan and carry out wedding tasks.  My H helped with everything: assembling wedding invites, making the favors, programs, etc.  It's his wedding too and he should be helping you.  What will happen when you have a kid?  Will he just sit back and play xbox while you are do the parenting?
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  • misssunshine17misssunshine17 member
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    You have way bigger issues than name spelling. 
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  • STARMOON44STARMOON44 member
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    Throw the save the dates away. Use the time you have been spending on them to read Too Good to Leave Too Bad to Stay.
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  • MuppetOverlordMuppetOverlord member
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    Wait to marry when you are happy and fulfilled with your relationship and accept your partner 100%.


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  • clg1213clg1213 member
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    Apologies for the hard-to-read post.  I seem to be the most talkative at the same time as I struggle the most with writing coherently (again, medical stuff...it is amazing what chronic pain does to the brain....doesn't help when I add in being upset).  I appreciate the time folks took to try to read the posts and to give thoughts.  In general, FI truly is a supportive partner, but he isn't the best communicator (which was behind his behavior and my frustration).  He has helped with other aspects of planning.  Still, the tendency to tune out when there's something wrong and to take outside issues out at home is definitely going to be fodder for talks with a counselor (which is something we are planning...and will happen). 

     

    Thanks again.

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