My mother and her boyfriend have been together pretty much as long as I can remember. I have called him my stepdad for years. They just never got around to being married.
He is terminally ill with lung cancer, so it's now or never.
They are having a small, just family and close friends ceremony and teeny tiny reception (fighting the cancer has pretty much wiped them out financially), and asked me to do the ceremony. The problem is I have no idea what to say.
I don't want it to be completely about cancer, but I also don't want to go completely traditional (till death do us part and what not).
Any ceremony ideas?
Re: The groom is terminally ill, please help!
It shouldn't at all be about cancer! Why on Earth would you even mention that as part of a wedding ceremony? That's just awful.
http://www.asimplyelegantceremony.com/Example-Ceremonies.html
Those are some examples. You should also check to see what it takes to legally perform ceremonies in your state as well before pursuing things any further.