Background:
My fiancé and I have been together 5.5 years, got engaged our senior year in college hoping to get jobs after graduation in December 2012 and get married that spring (June 2013). We couldn't start officially planning our wedding till at least one of us getting a full time position. Well VERY long story short we pushed it back to October when it became clear after graduation our job prospects were worse then we thought, and once again are having to delay it because we are still both unemployed (we are both NY certified music teachers, a miserable field. I've applied for over 90 jobs). We both are working two part-time jobs (substitute teaching when schools in session and another evening job) but neither one of us are earning enough to move out of our parents house. Both our families are SUPER conservative and we cannot move in together without getting completely cut off and disowned for our "immoral behavior".
I MAY have found work 12 + hours away in NC and the only way for us to move together without severing all ties with our families is to get married NOW (in three weeks), and we wouldn't have time or money for a honeymoon. I wouldn't mind moving in together for a year and having the wedding next spring, but my family is important to me and I don't want to be cut out, nor do we want to be separated for a full year. I've always dreamed of my big wedding and the honeymoon and the thought of doing a courthouse wedding then having a renewal ceremony with all the bells and whistles after (maybe June 2014) doesn't sit well with me.
Any one else had a situation similar to this (for whatever reason)?