Hey everyone,
I need some advice. My FH and I have gone through some really hard times since being engaged... I'll just vaguely go over it...
1. After a very serious bout of depression I attempted suicide, and was diagnosed with Bipolar disorder.
2. We have have 2 job losses.
3. We have had both of our cars break down and had to buy 1 new one.
4. The bad dceisions I made before being diagnosed as being bipolar are now catching up with me and I have been struggling financially.
I really want to postpone the wedding a year, but my FH doesn't want to. Right now I don't think my nerves can keep planning... I obviously love my FH soooo much and am amazed he has stuck with me through all of this, if that doesn't scream MARRY THIS MAN I don't know what does. But I also don't want to start our marriage off with so much debt and just a general bad aura around us.
My bridesmaids have already ordered their dresses and I'm so worried about what they will think, any advice on how I should approach that subject?
Also, I'm so worried about what his family will say... His mom already told him after my suicide attempt that he should leave me, and I'm worried what she will say when we announce that we're postponing because of me... Am I out of line to want to postpone? Would you guys go ahead and do it?