Hello! My fiance and I mailed our invitations a few weeks ago for our October 12th wedding, we gave our 'reply by' date as September 12th. We have not received very many reply cards! I am starting to worry, what if no one comes?! I have a very large family on my mom's side and we have received a few declines from people we assumed may not make it (distance, health, etc), however, everyday I go home excited to check the mailbox only to find it empty! We also have a large friend group; we invited 150 people and have only received 35 replies (most of which are the bridal party and immediate family)! Has anyone else struggled with this? The venue gave us a deadline for a final count, so my sister (matron of honor) will call guests to find out when that time comes, but I'm just anxious about it.