We are getting married in Feb-2014. This is both our 2nd wedding, mid-40's, so we want something simple, yet elegant. Has anyone ever rented a penthouse Suite or delux suite in a hotel (non "official reception hall") and hosted a cocktail party there? The few we have looked at are anywhere from 2,000sq ft to 3,600sq ft. We are having approx 60 guests, so I am not too worried about the space. What I am curious about is, is this allowed by hotels? We would not be using their food or beverage, but rather provide it ourselves. There would only be the 2 of us actually spending the night, but we just wanted to host a 3hr cocktail reception after our ceremony, but not with the traditional dancing/garter toss/video, etc. Simple yet elegant. Any help would be appreciated. Thanks!