My FI doesn't want a wedding band. I want him to have a wedding band. Currently he works as a mower operator, but that will change when he gets his bachelor of education that the mower job is paying for. I understand that he won't be able to wear it when he's mowing. I get that; my dad is a farmer and has his wedding band in the house for date nights and those days when he isn't playing in grease and places the ring could catch and tae off his finger/hand. My FI says that rings feel weird. Yes, initially they do, but he has never had a ring before and is failing to understand that the weirdness goes away. It's something that irks me a bit and I'm not totally sure why. I've thought about it, but obviously haven't struck gold yet. I will have a wedding band and for me it means that I am proud to be married and want to show off that I am. I don't get it and he dosn't feel the need to explain any more than "They feel funny." Am I wrong to push for this?