So I love my MOH and she is wonderful. Recently she has asked me for suggestions and what I want for my shower and bachelorette party. I don't mind giving the ideas because it would make it easier on her, but every idea I give her she shoots down. Especially for the bachelorette party. I suggested things that could be done by my BMs because they are too young to go out to a club or bar. I suggested a cooking class- $20 bucks at the adult learning center 10 minutes from my house, I suggested a perfume making kit $10 a person when the price of the kit is split, I tried mini golf, bowling, manicures and pedicures. She doesn't seem like she wants to do it. I even suggested skipping it all together, but she insists she wants to. I think she feels obligated because she had looked up MOH duties online. At this point its stressing her out especially because she wants to make sure all my BMs can be there whether it be age or that fact that they are in college a couple hours away. I don't want her to stress... A party isn't worth the strain it may have on our friendship. Any advice on how to handle this?