SO it's just over a month away to the big day and now i got to deal with two of my bridesmaids. one who is one of my longtime friends from when we were kids hasn't replied back to any of my messages texts/ facebook posts to her nothing and its not like she isn't on facebook or hasn't seen the messages because it tells me she has seen the messages and i post when i see she is on or if she just wrote a status i am since working alot so its also hard with one vehichle and both me and FI working full time to get over to the town ver to see her face to face. i thought her being one of my longest good friends (like sisters) she would feel she could talk to me if she was facing problems. Now my other bridesmaid we have been friends for a couple years shes the g of one of FI's groomsmen When i asked her to be a bridesmaid she seemed so excited to be involved talked about the bachlorette party ect was just into wanting to help now since her best friend got engaged (who isn't getting married till 2014) she basically has not care for being in my wedding or coming to hings ect. like they were going to plan my bridal shower they said so i left it at that and waited for them to ask me for a guest list and tell me times well i got nothing so i sent them a message wondering.. how they kinda acted made me seem like they really don't give a crap so i cancelled my bridal shower it was an inconvenience for them. well now my bachlorette party has come out for a date and my bridesmaid has said she might not be able to come because she might have to work. it's not like the date is in two weeks its a month and a half away its the weekend before the wedding i just booked it off work and im sure she could. i'm so frustrated i feel like people arn't caring anymore and it really hurts my feelings. i don't fully wanna say anything to her because i don't wanna seem to come off like she needs to pay attention to me or she can't be excited about her friends wedding its just when you say ur gonna do something why wouldn't you do it. i heard she was talking to her friend negatively about the bridesmaid dresses but when we got them i asked everyone for their honest opinions and if they didn't all like it we would work something out it was unanimous everyone said they loved them so i'm so confused.
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