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Do you regret your Maid of Honor choice? I do :(

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I'm having a hard time trying to forget about my regretful decision of making someone my MOH. It's been 3 months since the wedding and it's been bothering me, especially because I should have actually chosen one of my bridesmaids to take on that task. I even heard her talking to one of the groomsmen on our wedding day about how she wished she was the MOH instead  Any advice on how to overcome this regretful feeling? Thanks.
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Re: Do you regret your Maid of Honor choice? I do :(

  • Rebl90Rebl90 member
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    Are you feeling regret because someone else is wishing she was MOH or because of what your MOH is/isn't doing?
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
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    I probably should have added more details and a background before I posted this.
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  • MNNEBrideMNNEBride member
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    probably
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  • mrsconn23mrsconn23 member
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    Yes, background can help sometimes.  On the other hand, your wedding has passed and what happened, happened...You can't change the past.  It's time to find a way to move on.
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  • PirateBarbiePirateBarbie member
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    jonandjulia said:
    I'm having a hard time trying to forget about my regretful decision of making someone my MOH. It's been 3 months since the wedding and it's been bothering me, especially because I should have actually chosen one of my bridesmaids to take on that task. I even heard her talking to one of the groomsmen on our wedding day about how she wished she was the MOH instead  Any advice on how to overcome this regretful feeling? Thanks.
    Therapy and/or booze. 
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  • WzzWzz member
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    what do you do to fill your days? you might need to do more with your time if you've been married for 3 months and this is still on your mind.
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  • dalm0mdalm0m member
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    You gotta let it go & move on.  MY MOH was a nightmare & she did actively (& passive aggressively) try to ruin our wedding.  DH Hates her to this day but it's past.  We're still happily married & she's still a mess.  Maybe more of a mess now than she was before.  It's no matter to me.  Just let it go. 
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  • Rebl90Rebl90 member
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    Oh snap, I totally missed the fact that your wedding had passed. I agree with all the PPs, it's time to move on and not spend anymore time thinking about it. Enjoy the happy memories that you have and be thankful for your special day.
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  • fmbyofmbyo member
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    No, my MOH was the shizz. But for your situation - it's over with. Nothing you can do now but move forward.
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  • thejucheideathejucheidea member
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    Nope, I don't regret choosing him at all because he's been one of my greatest friends for many years.

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  • vainemeraldvainemerald member
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    jonandjuliaPirateBarbie said, booze and therapy. Haha, just kidding but that was a good one. But in all honesty you have to remember that you chose this person for a reason. Try to remember why that was. Friendships come and friendships go but ultimately there was a reason you included this person and since you cannot go back in time and change things you should try to embrace the decision of asking him/her to be MOH. Congratulations to you and your hubby! I bet in spite of being letdown by MOH you were overwhelmed with the love you guys shared with your friends and family that day. Focus on the positive.

     

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  • grumbledoregrumbledore member
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    I'm having a hard time trying to forget about my regretful decision of making someone my MOH. It's been 3 months since the wedding and it's been bothering me, especially because I should have actually chosen one of my bridesmaids to take on that task. I even heard her talking to one of the groomsmen on our wedding day about how she wished she was the MOH instead  Any advice on how to overcome this regretful feeling? Thanks.
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    Kanye says no.

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  • Ashine13Ashine13 member
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    Put it out in the air to the friend you wanted to be MOH and apologize to her for not making her your main girl. That might help the heaviness in your heart. But you really gotta let it go. Leave the past in the past.
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