Hi I know this topic has been covered before but I still need advice. I am a California bride getting married in December and my best friend is getting married in Texas in October we are both in each other's weddings but yesterday when I received my invitation my husband to be was not invited. I was hurt by this so I asked her and her response was that she thought it would be too expensive for both of us to fly out. It is expensive but my fiancee and I had already worked out the money issue months in advance. I don't think it was fair to make that choice for us. What do I do? Most boards say just not to go but I feel bad because I am in the wedding and have also already paid 2 grand in pre-wedding festivities (dress, shoes, flying out for her bacholorette party, Bridal shower) I don't know if I should decline or just add my fiancee's name to the invite? Any help would be appreciated