I could really use some opinions. My dress is a soft white/ivory that I purchased from David's Bridal. The dress is more of a soft white and of a chiffon material. I was told to have my groom wear a ivory shirt under his black vest. He is not wearing a jacket just a vest dress pants with a pumpkin orange tie with the selves rolled. My colors are a truffle and a pumpkin We are getting married outdoors pretty much in the woods. I am not set on the Ivory shirt for my Groom. I did take my dress to Mens Warehouse to compare and even took a picture with my cell and asked family that wasn't there. Almost everyone said to have the G wear the white shirt. But David's & Men's say the Ivory that if his shirt is too white my dress will look dingy. When compare the mens shirts to my dress my dress is between the two colors. A sales lady said the rule of thumb is to have the G to be darker then the bride Only the bride should stand out. I am just afraid with pictures one of us will off set the other. Any one else have this problem and what did you go with? Thanks