I caught up on the Changing your last name thread and I noticed that a lot of posters' reasoning for taking their hubands' name was "I don't want to have a different name from my children." I assume this is because you plan to give your child(ren) your husband's last name and not your own, a hyphenated last name, etc.
Questions for discussion:
1) Do you feel like the only option to have the same last name as your child(ren) is to take your husband's last name? Why?
2) Would your husband be open to changing HIS name to YOUR name? Why/why not? Did you ever ask? If so, what did he say?
3) Would you keep your last name and pass it on to your children (assuming your husband decided to keep his name)? Why/why not?
Go!
ETA - added a follow up question to #1 "why"
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