I am getting very sick of this so called "we just care about you" bullsh** from people since that's obviously not what it is. Don't ask me if I'm sure I want to marry "this person" or "him" and "am I sure its the right thing and I'm not just settling" and "I know that marriage isn't like a high school dance where at the end of the night its over right" etc ..... YES I KNOW THAT!!! If I didn't want to marry my fiance I would have said no or called off the engagement. Yes I believe and think and know and feel, etc etc that this is the right thing and yes I know marriage is for eternity and a promise made to each other before God, family and friends. UGH. Very hard to control my temper when this happens...... I just want to scream at them and say if they have something against me and my fiance getting married just say it. Don't try and make me second guess myself out of it.
Have any of you ladies gone through this?