Someone please tell me they've at least HEARD of a similar situation, because I need some support!
My fiance and I met in Syria, where he's from and where his entire family is. We're getting married here in the states as soon as he gets a visa to come here. He and I are both Muslim, but my family is Catholic. My family doesn't have a problem with it, but I don't want to push them too far with a very traditional Syrian Muslim ceremony.
If we were in Syria, we would have a small, family only wedding ceremony with an Imam (Muslim religious leader), then a big party blowout for everyoneeee in the neighborhood. I don't think my parents will be comfortable sitting with me, my FH and the Imam. And I also don't know if its appropriate to have an Imam stand in the typical officiator's position that you would have in most traditional American wedding ceremonies.How do I find a balance?
Another issue, my FH will not have any of his family here. And he doesn't know any of my friends or family yet, other than a few Skype dates with my mom and dad. I really want him to feel surrounded by support and love since he's going to be in a brand new country with brand new people, on the most important day of his life.
Ahhhh I guess I just need some good vibes. Its nearly impossible to plan a wedding when I can't even narrow the date down to a season (everything is in the hands of the Citizenship and Immigrations officers....they won't even give me a rough estimate on when I can expect a visa for my FH. ugggghh).
Anyone vaguely understand/emphathize with what I'm going through? Any advice?