When you ladies went through the transition from college to real job, did you ever have to ask who your real friends are?
I graduated a year early from all my friends. I was an overachiever and I chose to save money and to jump feet first into the workforce. However, I still live in the area of my college and one of my roommates is still in college including being the President of our fraternity so we've had some good chats. Just now, some of my friends are coming forth and saving that not only have I been acting like because I graduated and have a job, I'm more mature then them, but that I act like a child around BF and like him and I being playful is childish and all this other stuff. At the same time, I feel like none of them want to actually take the time and seriously ask me how I'm doing or tell me about their lives. So many of the conversations end like "How are classes?" "Good." *cue crickets*. I only have a few close friends left that I feel even care about my life. They say I'm glued at BF's side, but they've never invited me out on their own. I've usually had to begin the conversation. I feel like I'm trying so much harder than they are.
Please ladies put me in my place if I need it. I kind of need a mix of soothing and tough love.