Add A Bridesmaid? Is it to late?

Re: Add A Bridesmaid? Is it to late?

• doeydo member

  

  September 2013

  We had an engagement party & ask our friends to be part of our wedding at the party. My future brother in law is the Best Man. I wanted 2 ask his gf 2 be a Bridesmaid but was unsure because we don't know each other that well. I ended up not asking her. I really want her to be part of the wedding so I was thinking of asking her to be my personal attendant but have read many things online about that position being the Brides B!tch.  I definitely dont want her 2 feel like that.  I feel like she is such a great person the more I'm getting to know her. She offered to help with our engagement party & offered 2 help with the wedding. I really wish I would have asked her 2 be a Bridesmaid! Is it to late to ask her now? We arn't getting married till Sep. 2014 I was thinking of getting her the same gift I gave my Bridesmaids when I asked them  but adding a card 2 it saying I feel like we have gotten 2 know each more & would love for her to be part of our wedding ect. 

  Any thoughts?   THANKS!! :-)

  *I'm stuck in the box*
  If you already asked all your BMs and then asked her later I am sure she would feel like a "second rate" BM.  However, are you sure that you even want her as a BM?  Your BMs are supposed to be your nearest and dearest.  By the time the wedding comes, her and your future brother-in-law might break up and/or you two could not end up getting close.

  
  

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• zitiqueen member

  

  September 2013

  What are you, 12? This is a message board, not a text message. Please use your big-girl words.
  

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• AngelaAnn87 member

  

  September 2013 edited September 2013

  
  

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• banana468 member

  

  September 2013

  Angela, text speak is very difficult to read.    Please understand that people who critique the writing style are just trying to give you feedback so your words are easier to read and therefore advice can be easier to give. 

  
  

  If you want her to be a BM then be honest and say that you'd like her to be a BM.    Since you're a year out, I think it's OK to still add. 

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• Dreamergirl8812 member

  

  September 2013

  AngelaAnn87 said:

  Wow! I assume You are saying this to me. For one I posted this on another wedding site and was only allowed so many characters, so I had to shorten it up the best I could. I wanted to get more opinions and I didn't feel like re-typing it on here or changing a bunch of words.  Second I didn't ask for opinions on how my message looks or how the words are. If you don't have any input on the topic please don't waste time posting anything.

  I couldn't even read your post so I don't know what you said, but you don't get to tell anyone how to post. Or should I tell you to please not waste time by posting in 16 year old girl language?
  

  
  
  
  

  
  
  
  
  

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• AngelaAnn87 member

  

  September 2013 edited September 2013

  
  

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• mimiphin member

  

  September 2013

  Dreamergirl8812 said:

  AngelaAnn87 said:

  Wow! I assume You are saying this to me. For one I posted this on another wedding site and was only allowed so many characters, so I had to shorten it up the best I could. I wanted to get more opinions and I didn't feel like re-typing it on here or changing a bunch of words.  Second I didn't ask for opinions on how my message looks or how the words are. If you don't have any input on the topic please don't waste time posting anything.

  I couldn't even read your post so I don't know what you said, but you don't get to tell anyone how to post. Or should I tell you to please not waste time by posting in 16 year old girl language?
  

  OMG It's Jashley's 16 year old cousin, posting on all the wedding websites.

  Sorry was just too easy to go there.  

  

  
   

  

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• jenniferurs member

  

  October 2013

  I personally don't type like that, but I didn't find it remotely difficult to read.

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