I want my aunt to be my maid of honor but she is 49 (will be 51 at the wedding) but she is gay has a long time girlfriend (at least 25-30 years) but has never been married - does she still "qualify" for maid of honor status? I dont want to offend her but I also want to surprise her so asking her is kinda out of the question at least without blowing the surprise.
Anyone have any insight on this? I would really appreciate it!