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FI's best friend isn't coming

FI just found out that his best friend isn't coming to the wedding.   We weren't going to have attendants but this guy was going to sit at our table with us at the reception.  Apparently his psycho girlfriend & mother of his 2 year old daughter completely flipped the F out because we aren't having kids at the wedding.  Both of their families live here so there is zero issue with them getting a sitter for the wedding. His sister has already told them she'll do it.   She's just pissed of so she's refusing  to come.  And she has now flat out forbid him to come up on his own under threat that she'll take the kid and leave while he's gone.  Frankly we probably are dodging a bullet by not having her here to get stupid drunk and cause  scene but I just feel so bad for FI. 

I just don't get how people are this worked up and stupid. 

Re: FI's best friend isn't coming

  • doeydodoeydo member
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    edited October 2013
    He isn't going to attend his best friend's wedding because his girlfriend is having a hissy fit?  Wow.  ETA spelling
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  • WonderRedWonderRed member
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    edited October 2013
    doeydo said:
    He isn't going to attend his best friend's wedding because his girlfriend is having a hissy fit?  Wow.  ETA spelling
    Well I'm still hoping he'll finally get over her controlling, a-hole drama and tell her to go F herself.
  • Oh, wow, I am so sorry. That sucks. And yeah -- people are jerks. It seems like weddings bring out both the best and the worst in people, and I don't have any idea why. But I'm so sorry for your FI. That sucks.

    Your wedding, IIRC, is about a month away, right? Nov. 1? Maybe there's a chance he'll break up with her between now and then and get clear of her controlling ways. Good luck!!
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    I'm gonna go with 'not my circus, not my monkeys.'
  • That is horrible!

    I hope he realises what a manipulative cow he's gotten himself involved with and gets the hell out before it gets any worse. I know it's difficult because of the kid, but if she DID up and leave with the kid, he'd have options.

    And I really hope that he does make it to your wedding. I can't imagine getting married without our best friends there.
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  • That really sucks. I'm sorry. Hopefully he comes to his senses. 
  • Bitches be crazy. 

    Honestly, I feel for the dude, but he needs to take control of the situation somehow. 
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  • Sorry to hear this. :(  We are date twins and have a similar problem.  FI's best friend/best man may not be able to come due to military training. We're bummed, but c'est la vie.
  • It never ceases to amaze me how many people think that your wedding needs to include all of their wishes and desires. 
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