So, when does the photographer arrive if you want "getting ready" photos? I originally thought I'd just have the photographer meet us at the ceremony site, but we have up to 8 hours with him.
Is he there before you put your dress on? Is he capturing you doing your make-up? I suppose, I probably don't even need this if I don't know, but what are you having your photographer capture prior to your ceremony (and FI will be elsewhere)? What "must-have" shots are you getting at this time?